Banishing people

Posted on April 23, 2011
Filed Under Ethics, Experiments, Magic | 2 Comments

Over time, I have found it occasionally necessary to do a banishment working to banish people from my life. I’ve found that continuing to tolerate their influence, energy, or presence in my life makes me unhappy and so instead of continuing to compromise the overall value and happiness in my life, it’s easier to just banish the people.

When I talk about banishing someone, I’m not talking about harming the person. While I may not like the person and may not want him/her in my life, I also don’t want the person harmed. I just want him/her gone. For me, its not a matter of harming, so much as removing something that no longer belongs in my life. I wish them the best (even the people I don’t like), but I don’t need to continue to put up with them.

There are several techniques I’ve developed for this purpose. One is to create a sigil web and include in it all the people, experiences, events, etc that I currently have in my life. The ones I want to keep, I strengthen and the ones I want to banish, I cut out of the web. I then burn their symbols and put the ash on the road. I don’t want it on the ground I live, since that would invite them back into my life.

The other technique is somewhat similar, but also different Instead of creating a web, I create a sigil for the person I no longer want in my life. I put in that sigil all the feelings I have about the person. Then I burn the sigil take it off property. By putting the emotions I feel toward the person into the sigil, I’m able to free myself of an feelings I have toward that person. This is a good technique to use for someone you don’t like.

I think its healthy to banish people from your life. You can’t and won’t necessarily be friends with everyone and it’s important to maintain your boundaries and protect yourself from undesirable influences. Banishing allows you to do that and also allows you to ground yourself.

Comments

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Pyrhonik
Pyrhonik

I agree with your premise on this subject and, until now, had never considered using magic to extricate them from life. Thank you for this article.

Happy to help out. I know it's helped me a lot.