Elemental Love Working Month 11

Posted on September 21, 2008
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This weekend is the one year anniversary of when Babalon indicated to me that I would be spending a year working with her and the element of love. This last month has been one of memories and regets, and I suppose that’s fitting in some ways, because it’s also been about me coming to terms with how much this year long working has changed me and is changing me.  And increasingly this last month I’ve also been coming face to face with the feeling of emptiness and hunger that has sometimes motivated my actions. Sitting with that feeling of emptiness and hunger has not been easy, but I recognize that it is something that has motivated my search for love.

I think one of the deepest moments I had was when I was hiking with Lupa. She’d gone up the mountain trail a bit further and I was sitting and I began meditating about love and it’s place in my life and I think I finally, really realized just how much I had treated love as a kind of cure all…a means of filling up that emptiness in my life, as if I could somehow find someone who would make it all better. I had, I realized, focused so much on filling that feeling of emptiness that any interaction in a romantic sense was ultimately based on that desire as opposed to being mindfully present with anyone. That’s a hard realization to have because it calls into doubt any relationship I’ve had with a person. And yet by acknowledging that emptiness and just how much it’s motivated my search for love, it’s also helped me see who I am, as well as the cause for a lot of my behaviors. Later when I talked with Lupa I admitted to her just how much my desire to find particular characteristics in a person was motivated by trying to fill that emptiness…the realization that my relationship with her had been based on that and how hard it had been for me to accept that no relationship I could find would really address that feeling of emptiness. The responsibility for dealing with that emptiness ultimately falls on me…it only took me this long to realize that.

Throughout all of this I’ve felt Babalon’s presence in a subtle way, though the other day it manifested a bit more directly when I ended up sitting beside someone involved in an organization focused on Babalon. I found it amusing, and also relevant…it’s her showing me that she’s here, that she’s continuing to help me through this process. She took me on, and only required that I strip away all my illusions about myself. I have one more month with this year long element of love…Seems strange to think that this will be done in just a month.

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