6-30-2013 I’ve been contemplating the astrological cycle of Pluto in conjunct with my natal chart. It’s become a part of my work with the element of movement, an underworld experience of sorts, but more so with movement in my life, and movement around my life and how I handle it. It’s interesting how working with an element to find balance with it in your life and really to balance your life can itself be shaped by other variables. I don’t know that I would really be aware of this conjunction if not for the fact that a friend told me about it, and the question that comes to mind is: If I wasn’t aware of it, would it still impact me? I don’t know. The conjunction is ultimately just another pattern and while I think my awareness of that pattern is a factor, I also know that awareness or lack thereof doesn’t guarantee anything so much as it demonstrates what you know or don’t know about a given situation. My drive to know is part of what informs the movement in my life. I want to know, and I want to share, and that inspires me toward these experiences, which can be both painful and enlightening in terms of what I learn.
7-3-13 I’m feeling off today. There’s been a bit of a family crisis of late and I’m doing what I can to support the relevant people, but I also feel some fear for the people involved, a knot of anxiousness and a recognition that what I can do is limited. I’m dealing with another situation right now, where I’ve brought in a consultant to help me solve a problem. The consultant called me the other day and his advice wasn’t promising. I felt anxious about it, but then I chanted the name of an entity I’ve created to help me deal with this situation and the entity told me to call him back and have him double check the information he’d given me. So I call him back, have him double check the information, and we are back on course, all because I chanted an entity’s name and focused all the anxiety I was feeling toward it. And yes I get that it doesn’t make rational sense, but I don’t need it to make rational sense. I need it to make sense enough to achieve a different outcome and that’s what it’s doing. Movement isn’t always about going the provincial route, but rather about finding the best route even in the most non-obvious places.
7-8-13 I’ve been thinking a bit about relationships because of a book I was reading which made the point that the romantic relationships we are drawn to are ones that relate to the relationships that were modeled to us as children. And I think there’s truth to that. When I look at who I’ve been attracted to in the past as well as actual relationships I’ve gotten involved in, I can see certain behavioral characteristics I’ve been drawn to in the past, and I see how it’s replicated certain cycles of behavior as a result. And until I worked through some of those cycles, I wasn’t able to break out of the relationships I was getting into. Now I’m in a different relationship than I’ve ever been in and it’s been very healthy for me and has continued to allow me to break out of those cycles, but it amazes me how until you really examine who and what you are drawn to, how easy it can be to essentially be in a similar relationship to the one your parents modeled for you.
7-9-13 Giving up trying to control something that you have limited control over can be incredibly freeing, especially when you feel the tension in your body relax as a result of choosing to let go instead of trying to hold on so hard. Repeatedly I see this lesson illustrated in the lives of people around me, but also in my own life and although it can be hard to give up that sense of control, I also find it helpful, because then I’m not worrying about it or stressing over it. I see now how my stress has really been my feeling of trying to control something and feeling that the only control I could have was to be stressed about whatever. I know this something I’ll continually work on, but I also know that continuing to do it will gradually make it easier for me to let go of the pretense of control, which in turn will lead to less stress.
7-10-13 My dad’s visiting for a few days. We went to the Mummy exhibit at OMSI, and then got into a discussion about history, including the family history. He’s got a civil war rifle and sword that my great-great grandfather used. I’m hoping that’ll he donate those weapons and the logbook to a museum. I feel that history such as that should belong to the people, and that if we contribute it to a museum then everyone can learn from it. The visit has been good so far, but I see such a difference in him. I know that at some point it will be the last time I see him. I can accept it, but still feel an odd sense of mortality, recognizing that my time with this person is very limited. I’m glad we are going to the ocean on Friday so he can see it, makes me feel good to make sure he an I have that experience together.
7-17-13 My dad headed back to South Dakota. It was a good visit, but since then I’ve been playing catch up and there is nothing so frustrating as if feeling that time is slipping away, especially when you feel this need to get things done. Maybe at a different time of my life I’ll feel different, but there’s so much I want to do.
7-20-13 I haven’t been doing much lately, other than reading through the Dragonrealms series and playing the Last of Us. I spend so much time working on projects or writing that taking the occasional break to feed myself brain candy is good as a way of renewing myself. Yes it means I’m not reading or doing anything truly stupendous, but it also means I’m giving myself some down time, which isn’t something I’ve always been good at. I am always aware of the projects I want to work on, but I also know that giving myself over to those projects requires that I also provide myself time to just…be.
Reading Dragonrealms has been interesting, because I see this gradual evolution of the writing, the characters, and the world. It’s not the best fantasy writing out there, but the author does an excellent job of bringing you into the writing. I’ve had this series of books since it came out in the eighties and I’m glad he’s writing more books in the series. As for the Last of Us…It’s like a movie, wrapped up in a game that hits you with the terror of living in a post apocalyptic world, while also hitting on the relationships people have with each other and how essential those relationships are to maintaining your connection to a sense of self.
7-23-13 Something I’ve realized about movement, stillness, and control is that the best thing you can do is just let go and stop trying to be in control. I know I’ve mentioned it above, but it can’t be emphasized enough, in my opinion. There are certain experiences where you just won’t have that sense of control you think you have, and if you can accept that, be okay with it, you can actually discover possibilities and experiences you never would’ve thought of because you were so invested in a particular view of the world and your expression in it.