Some thoughts on Sex Magic

Posted on April 13, 2009
Filed Under babalon, Magic, Sex Magic | 6 Comments

I got into an interesting discussion today with an acquaintance I met about sex magic. I was telling her about my approach to sex magic, in terms of how I identify myself when it comes to the polarity issue. In hetero sex magic, the masculine principle is usually perceived of as the active energy, while the female principles is usually perceived of as the passive energy. But I’ve never really agreed with that model, and my work with Babalon has only made it more apparent to me that the trad model of sex magic, in ceremonial magic, doesn’t really work for me.

When it comes to sex magic, and even sex in general, I tend to be a re-active principle, which is to say that my energy doesn’t get active until it has something to re-act to, and even then I prefer that my energy be directed by my partner.

Or to put it a different way, instead of being the beast which carries Babalon, I am the beast ridden by Babalon…My energy responds to her and she directs it. And I’m comfortable with that as a sex magician.

But it didn’t really, fully click until today that this was the case, because so much of what I’ve read has always insisted on the male principle being the active energy. And I wonder how many other male magicians, who practice sex magic, might respond if they realized that the masculine principle doesn’t always need to be active, and sometimes just may not be at all.